Tuesday, May 12, 2009

I got me some sugar and spice for Mother's Day

Well, she's finally here! This past Saturday was full of the usual events (soccer game, trip to the store, pizza for dinner...) although I was fairly determined that I wanted our weekend events to include "have a baby." After the kids went to bed on Saturday night I decided to start walking and did several trips around the block to encourage some baby action. By about 10:00 that night I was having fairly regular contractions and by midnight they were about 4 min. apart and getting quite intense so we decided after much debate to head to the hospital...

You would think by my 4th kid it would be easy for me to recognize when I'm really in labor. Hewitt came so quickly (born 30 minutes after we pulled into the hospital parking lot) that I've always been afraid of not making it in time. I was a little discouraged to say the least when we arrived at the hospital to learn that I was only at a 3 and 1/2 and the contractions had sort of died down! I had already summoned my support team of the Nurse Midwife and my doula (labor coach) who brought with her a cute girl who is in training to become a doula (two doulas for the price of one--fabulous). I was afraid that they were going to send me home, but as soon as I got out of bed and moving around the room, things picked up and the real *fun* began. Maybe my memory is bad or maybe my body is just getting older (both of these are true), but things seemed much more difficult this time around. I won't go into all the labor details, but the entire process seemed to take a lot longer than the actual 4 hours it took to get the baby here! They broke my water when I was about 8cm and we called my mom at that point who was able to make it to the hospital in time for the delivery. I should mention that with my team of women (4 total including the hospital nurse) supporting and coaching me along, this enabled Rob to spend about 70% of the labor SOUND ASLEEP on the couch. I couldn't believe what all he was able to sleep through. When they were about to break my water I had to repeat about five times, "Rob, it's time to wake up. Call my mom. Rob, get your cell phone out. Rob, let's go..." Finally I said, "Rob, the baby is here. It's a boy!" Still nothing. After the baby came I laughed when Rob said, "Wow. That seemed to go a lot better than the others." Yah, because you were asleep for most of it! I should note that my husband thinks that hiring a doula and paying the $400 (as it was in this case for her services) is well worth the money...and I agree. My friend Angie told me about this comic that was in the paper on Sunday morning and I find it quite fitting and funny:

Anyway, to get to the real point of this entry, the baby arrived on Sunday, May 10th at 4:23AM, weighing in at 7 pounds 3 ounces and was 19 inches long. She surprised us with strawberry blonde hair (emphasis on the strawberry) and in our opinion looks like a cross between Hewitt (coloring) and Tosh (features). We named her Liv Maryana which was a big surprise to my parents (my mom's name is Maryana) and we think she is pretty darn perfect. She has been such a great eater and sleeper and is so snuggly and sweet. All in all, the perfect Mother's Day gift.

Our boys have had coughs and so we've had to keep them away from Liv, although we did allow them to come to look at her for about 3 minutes. They were all absolutely ecstatic. Hewitt, asked to see her little feet and when I showed him he said, "Oh, they are so fresh!" I thought that was hilarious. Anyway, here are some more photos (the one of the boys is blurry, but you get the idea).

Monday, May 4, 2009

Adjustments

Well, we've moved. Last week was fairly crazy to say the least and I was happy to get through it without the baby coming. Hewitt has had the hardest time adjusting to the change it seems and when he cries to go "home" it makes me cry (I want to go "home" too!). The kids have had a hard time getting to sleep at night and are waking up an hour or so early every morning which makes for extra whiny and fussy kids (and an extra tired mom).

We had dinner last night with my parents and on our way home to Provo Hewitt said, "I don't want to live to Arizona. I don't want to live to Grandma and Grandpa Pete's house. I want to live in HOLLYWOOD!" (Note that Hewitt still mixes up his prepositions)...

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

"Tasha"

My friend Sara brought a darling little gift by for our baby yesterday. Tosh saw me open it and immediately started taking off his clothes, wanting to try it on. I've always thought that Tosh was a rather "pretty" boy, but I think this proves it...Tosh running around in a pink dress did throw me off a little. The really funny thing was that he did not want me to take the dress off and every time I tried he would yell, "Noooo!" Burke laughed so hard about it when he got home from school; it only was when he started calling Tosh "Emma" and saying things like, "Come on little sister Emma..." that I insisted the dress come off.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Ten years today

I am one very lucky girl. I love you Rob!
Thanks for the best years of my life...

Monday, April 20, 2009

Bangs


I got my hair cut over the weekend. It's the first time in 18 years that I've had real "bangs." I'm sort of having a hard time getting used to them. Of course I was styling my hair a bit different in 1991...

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

According to my kids...

I've seen this on several blogs and on facebook as well...definitely worth a good laugh. I asked Hewitt (4) and Burke (almost 7) the following questions and got these responses:


1. What is something your mom always says to you?
H: Because
B: No

2. What makes your mom happy?
H: A laugh
B: When we do what she asks us to do

3. What makes your mom sad?
H: When I’m sad
B: When we don’t obey

4. How does your mom make you laugh?
H: She laughs
B: By telling me new jokes

5. What was your mom like as a child?
H: She liked going to the beach
B: She liked playing with dolls

6. How old is your mom?
H: 44 (thanks Hewie)
B: 33 and ¾

7. How tall is your mom?
H: Um, like 16
B: 5 foot 5 (close, thanks for the extra inch)

8. What is her favorite thing to do?
H: Drawing with me
B: Fun activities with her family

9. What does your mom do when you’re not around?
H: Draw with pencils on paper
B: Clean the house

10. If your mom becomes famous, what will it be for?
H: That happens! (Does he mean that I'm already famous?)
B: Being a good mom

11. What is your mom really good at?
H: Playing tennis on the Wii
B: Helping her kids

12. What is your mom not very good at?
H: Baseball
B: Having kids sit on her lap with a baby in her tummy (so true)

13. What does your mom do for a job?
H: Building in construction; helping friends
B: Chores

14. What is your mom’s favorite food?

H: Celery (what??)
B: Taco salad

15. What makes you proud of your mom?
H: Because she helps me
B: Being a good mom

16. If your mom were a cartoon character, who would she be?
H: Daphne
B: Velma
(does this mean my kids think I'm smart and gorgeous?)

17. What do you and your mom do together?

H: Play the Wii
B: Do cool projects

18. How are you and your mom the same?
H: When we wear jeans and t-shirts
B: Our last name

19. How are you and your mom different?

H: When we aren’t dressed the same
B: She’s a girl; I’m a boy

20. How do you know your mom loves you?
H: When I have kisses
B: She gives me hugs and kisses and she is my mom

21. What does your mom like most about your dad?
H: Dad takes us on vacation and on drives
B: He does fun things with her and us

22. Where is your mom’s favorite place to go?
H: To Arizona (certainly not yet...maybe someday?)
B: Grandma and Grandpa D.’s house

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Sadly celebrating

It looks as though we have sold our home. The house is under contract and we close at the end of this month (the week before my due date)! What a whirlwind this past week has been. In my usual style, instead of starting to pack or deal with the realities of moving, I have been spending my "spare time" making a quilt for the baby. My thoughts and emotions have vacillated from feeling extremely grateful that our home has sold (and to a great family, btw) to feeling extremely sad that we are moving and so soon! I wish I could pack up all of my dear friends and take them along...we have been so blessed these past 4 years to live in this wonderful neighborhood.

Rob's folks have kindly agreed to let us stay with them until we can find a place in Arizona. I'm guessing/hoping we'll be moving down there in July; before school starts and just in time for the real heat. So, here's to a new chapter in our lives; let the chaos (umm, I mean adventure) begin.